Naming Ceremonies
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Traditionally, we had religious ceremonies, such as baptisms, for the formal naming ceremony of a child. Today, as people move away from religion, the modern Naming Ceremony is more often used instead to formally welcome the child into the family unit, and into the wider circle of family and friends. It is also a great time to acknowledge the grandparents and the part they will play in the life of your child. A Naming Ceremony is a great opportunity to explain the special meaning of your child's name and declare their individuality and uniqueness. You can publicly acknowledge your wish for your child to have the freedom to always be that individual as they grow and find their own place in the world.
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Just like a baptism or christening, where you choose special people to serve as "godparents" to your child, you can also seek that support in a Naming Ceremony with "guardians or mentors". Being chosen as a mentor is a great honour, but it also brings the responsibility of having a lifelong interest in the welfare of the child, especially in the event of death of a parent. Choose wisely.
You may ask your guardians to take a special part in the life and development of your child, or ask that they will always be there if the child needs company, advice, or help. They may make public affirmation that they will listen to, and respect, the child's confidences and wishes. You may ask the mentors to always show love and understanding to your child, and let the child know that they will always have a special place in their heart.
You may ask your guardians to take a special part in the life and development of your child, or ask that they will always be there if the child needs company, advice, or help. They may make public affirmation that they will listen to, and respect, the child's confidences and wishes. You may ask the mentors to always show love and understanding to your child, and let the child know that they will always have a special place in their heart.
A Naming Ceremony can be as simple or complex as you wish - you can have certificates, readings, candle lighting rituals or whatever you desire. It does not have legal standing (that is done through the registration with Births, Deaths and Marriages Registry when the child is born), it is simply a celebration and naming.
Please remember, the Naming Ceremony is not just for babies. It can be done at any age for any reason. Some adults have a Naming Ceremony to celebrate their change of name e.g. a christian name they have never liked, their surname after divorce etc. It can also be used when the children of two separate families merge into one with new step parents.
Please remember, the Naming Ceremony is not just for babies. It can be done at any age for any reason. Some adults have a Naming Ceremony to celebrate their change of name e.g. a christian name they have never liked, their surname after divorce etc. It can also be used when the children of two separate families merge into one with new step parents.